feat: add fluxer upstream source and self-hosting documentation

- Clone of github.com/fluxerapp/fluxer (official upstream)
- SELF_HOSTING.md: full VM rebuild procedure, architecture overview,
  service reference, step-by-step setup, troubleshooting, seattle reference
- dev/.env.example: all env vars with secrets redacted and generation instructions
- dev/livekit.yaml: LiveKit config template with placeholder keys
- fluxer-seattle/: existing seattle deployment setup scripts

fluxer/fluxer_devops/nats_jetstream/nats.conf

@@ -0,0 +1,12 @@
+port: 4222
+http_port: 8222
+
+jetstream {
+  store_dir: /data
+  max_mem: 256M
+  max_file: 10G
+}
+
+authorization {
+  token: "$NATS_AUTH_TOKEN"
+}